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2000-10-13 - 5:12 pm Sorry, I have not been on-line. I was in sunny warm Flordia!! I got back yesterday afternoon from my trip to Florida. I was there from last Saturday till yesterday. So, that is why I have not been on-line at all. Anyway, the weather there was gorgeous and all. The whole point of the trip was to see my Grandfather once last time. He had cancer through out his whole body. We arrived to find him not feeling well last Saturday and having severe pain. My Dad took him into the hospital. He was resting and was put on morphine for pain. So, I talked to him last for real on Sunday. Then my sister left on Tuesday to go home. I decided to say to help my Dad. Anyway, as the days went on my Grandfather got worse. We took him to a hospice and got him situated. He looked thin and was a vegetable. While this was going on my Dad and I took his house apart to look for his will. Finally, Wensday night we had success and found it. He left nothing to my Father since he married my Mother. In a way, he was a cranky old selfish man. That is what he is going to take to is his grave, fine by me!! Last night at 12/12:30 am, my Dad got a call saying my Grandfather died. This is the third death for me this year. First was Larry.....then two weeks ago my great aunt died and now my Grandfather. I feel like crap and hated my Grandfather, but that is life and I am happy he died not from suffering and died in his sleep. Part of me wishes he had a better relationship with me. That is the way things go I guess. Luv ya, Abby � � |